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Monday, November 30, 2015

Day 920: How do You Respond?

Wouldn't it be great if we each had the patience and self discipline to listen, speak and act without judgement or reaction? There is a great gift in supporting the people around you to face their inner demons and forgive them.

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Sunday, November 29, 2015

Day 919: Are You Certain?

Another little memory of Bernard... Because you asked so nicely.

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Saturday, November 28, 2015

Day 918: I'm Just Me and You're Just You

I share some experiences of Bernard being my dad...

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Friday, November 27, 2015

Day 917: The Limitations and Restrictions of Gender Roles

How do we limit ourselves and restrict our self expression by enforcing the crippling judgements that come with stereotyping and gender roles? What is the key to giving ourselves and each other the freedom to really explore ourselves and find out what we enjoy?

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Thursday, November 26, 2015

Day 916: Your Body's Gift

Every thought, emotion and feeling you allow within you becomes a physically manifested 'expression' in your body. How can you support yourself to listen to your body?

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Wednesday, November 25, 2015

Day 915: Singular Perception Disorder

We are prone to getting stuck in our way of seeing the world - unfortunately this is what causes most (if not all) conflicts. Take a moment to consider that there is hardly ever only one answer to any thing.

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Tuesday, November 24, 2015

Day 914: Not Enough

It's not enough just to survive - this is not what life is supposed to be. I am one vote for changing the way we live and think, so that we can create a world that supports life instead of exploiting it.

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Monday, November 23, 2015

Day 913: Not in Control

Are we ever truly in control of our lives? Yes and no. We are, however, absolutely in control of who we are in whatever situations we end up in. We have the power and ability to decide how we will face the situations that life presents us with - who will you choose to be?


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Sunday, November 22, 2015

Day 912: Usury and the Evil in Humanity

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Usury

Usury is today the practice of making unethical or immoral monetary loans that unfairly enrich the lender.

When you start looking into how money works and how the money system works, you'll start getting familiar with terms such as 'usury' and the reality of how completely irrational and exploitative our money system actually is.

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Saturday, November 21, 2015

Day 911: See the World with Fresh Eyes

http://www.z100.com/articles/going-viral-493891/6-photographers-shoot-the-same-person-14099557/

The link above goes to a video where 6 different photographers take photos of the same man. They are each given a different 'back story' for the man - and the photos are the evidence of their vastly differing perceptions of this one man.

We are not necessarily seeing the world and other people as it/they really is. We see through our perceptions, personalities, memories... Take a moment to look at your life with a new vision.

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Friday, November 20, 2015

Day 910: Secret Money Movements

What are the consequences of living in ignorance of how money functions? It's time to start asking more questions and being open to new areas of understanding within ourselves.

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Thursday, November 19, 2015

Day 909: Is TTIP the Beginning of the End?

http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/comment/what-is-ttip-and-six-reasons-why-the-answer-should-scare-you-9779688.html

This article gives a basic overview of some of the implications of TTIP, it's s good way to start learning a bit about it.

Is TTIP the cause of our problems, or just another symptom?

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Wednesday, November 18, 2015

Day 908: Who am I?

How often do you ask yourself who you are? Who are you within your thoughts, words and deeds? Is that who you want to be?

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Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Day 907: Preference vs Practicality

What is the difference between making choices based on your personal preferences and focusing on practical considerations first? What happens when you make choices based on your personal preferences instead of considering all possible factors?

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Monday, November 16, 2015

Day 906: MISunderstanding

We have the uncanny ability to rush through information we see, read or hear. We so often will be distracted and not see the reality of the information, we miss bits and pieces of it and then react to what we actually did take in. How can we support ourselves to stop being in such a hurry and start paying attention to what we're taking in so that we don't have to go through all the conflicts and consequences that come from acting on half-truths and misunderstandings?

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Sunday, November 15, 2015

Day 905: Excuses, Excuses

We tend to give our excuses so much value, when all they are are thoughts floating around in our minds, a collection of words formed into sentences and experiences. It's time to stop paying so much attention to our inner dialogue of excuses and to start LIVING the potential that is within us.

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Saturday, November 14, 2015

Day 904: Attacking vs Sharing

How do emotional reactions taint our communication to be aggressive, creating a domino effect of even more conflict? What is a more effective way to communicate?

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Friday, November 13, 2015

Day 903: Conflict of Priorities

What do our priorities tell us about who we are, when we divert more resources to conflict than we do do health, happiness and education?

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Thursday, November 12, 2015

Day 902: Preaching to the Deaf

This is quite an interesting point. I have seen it to be true when someone has formed an opinion on something and has attached a specific emotional experience to it. A strange thing happens when we form opinions about people / things - we assume that because our opinion makes sense to US that it MUST BE the ONLY explanation, so while we're in that "mindset" we will not be willing to hear anything else - it's a form of self righteousness "This is what makes sense to me and so it MUST BE RIGHT!"

I've been on both ends of the stick -  as I am sure most people have at least once in their lives. We tend to start getting stuck in how we see things, and from that stuckness we make ourselves less and less flexible in other areas too.

I found that when I was the one being inflexible, it was when I had spent many moments over a long period of time building up "my defence" and all of my justifications, explanations and theories that "proves" that my opinion was solid and that there couldn't possibly be any other explanation. I imposed what made sense to me from a limited understanding / consideration of a situation. I imposed my expectations and probable choices onto others - thinking things like "the only way I would EVER do something like that is if I wanted to deliberately hurt someone, which *I* would *never* do". Obviously in those moments I got so lost in my fantasies of how I was righteous and amazing and the other person/people were terrible and mean, that I didn't consider the entire picture / context - I was considering things within a limited perception - MY limited perception. Often these experiences would end in me embarrassing myself by being shown that I did not consider everything - sometimes I didn't even TRY to gather different perspectives or information, such as by asking people what they see or experienced.

When I am the one trying to share a different perspective / consideration with another person(s) who is in that "stuck" experience, I have had mixed results in "getting the message through". When I am speaking with someone, if I react at all then I essentially blow whatever chance I had of getting through for that moment. If that happens I first stabilise myself, adjust the tonality of my voice and try again. A lot of the time you won't see someone considering anything outside of their opinion in one conversation, often they need to go and process the information when they're alone (and not feeling like they have to defend their opinion). They might then come to you some time later and say "you know what, I was being stubborn, I looked at everything again and realised that I hadn't considered those points you were trying to show me.". Sometimes they don't say a word, but will change their living application so that they start applying / testing those different perspectives. Sometimes, they do not budge at all. I find that I can only do so much with / for another, I can try use different words, different voice tonalities, different approaches, but ultimately it is up to each person to step outside of their "stuck" views and opinions to consider different perspectives.

So, my suggestions in either scenario are basically the same: stop reactions, slow yourself down. If you feel yourself having a very strong opinion about something, stop. If you feel yourself feeling like you are right (about anything!), STOP. Take a few moments to check yourself before you wreck yourself.

Wednesday, November 11, 2015

Day 901: I am Insignificant

In a number of recent products on EQAFE, namely You Will Never Change the World - Life Review, Lost in Hopelessness & Despair - Journeys Into the Afterlife - Part 81 and Why Don't People Care? - Life Review the experience of hopelessness and futility is explored, specifically in the context of changing the world. These recordings are valuable to anyone wanting to see changes happening in the world as the task that lies ahead of us is so big, so interconnected and so deeply engrained that it is easily to slip into a state of despair.

The common thread in all 3 recordings is that there is no one person who can change the entire world alone. It is simply not possible. There may be a way to speed up change by having access to large resources that would allow for things such as creating media that would be accessible by many people. However, real change will happen on an individual level - meaning that each person will need to be willing to change and then to actually do what it takes to implement those changes. We cannot sit around and wait to hit some kind of jackpot, we also can't sit around and wait for "everyone else" to start creating changes - it's up to each of us to create changes within ourselves and our lives.

Each person has particular strengths that can be developed to a point of being able to stand as an example to those around them. Each of us has a voice which can be heard through a number of different platforms available. Every person is capable of investigating how their mind works. Every person is capable of choosing how to live.

We too often do not see the potential and ability that exists within the individual. We tend to get lost in seeing only the entirety of everything that needs to change. Seeing only "me against the world" will lead to a feeling of being small and insignificant, because when measuring change from that perspective, anything you do will appear to have a negligible effect. When looking at your immediate environment however, changes you create will have visible impact that will ripple out to effect multiple lives and areas. Every person who is affected by your actions has the potential to stand with you in creating changes in their lives which will ripple out to effect even more people.

There are some people and some situations that, no matter what you do or say, you cannot move the point towards a solution. Sometimes people and circumstances will continue to fight you with no sign of stopping. This is going to happen - humanity is not at the stage where every single person alive is capable of changing their relationship to their minds. Change is possible, but there will be times where it simply does not happen. Don't take it personally. Don't go into that place of hopelessness. There may not be a solution for everyone and everything in this moment, or even in this lifetime.

By changing our focus and perspectives from being problem-oriented to being solution-oriented we give ourselves the opportunity to develop new and innovative ways to create change in the world, even if it is only on a small scale in our immediate environments. We determine the nature of our relationships with each other and with everything in the world, and if we define our relationships as being inconsequential, meaningless and without impact, then that is what we will create - a vicious cycle where we continue to confirm our beliefs in what we create.

Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Day 900: The Correction Tools

In the second course of DIP Pro (Structural Resonance Alignment 2 - SRA 2) you learn how to create a Mind Construct. Mind constructs show you how you got to be who you are and how you got to having the experiences you had. You start to see the patterns in your mind and therefor the patterns in your life, manifesting in your experiences over and over again.

Not surprisingly, mind constructs are one of the tools that people (generally speaking) have the most resistance toward doing. The most common experience is not feeling like working on their mind construct, which leads to some not giving this gift to themselves effectively. Obviously most of us go through phases where things like this don't seem very important, which contributes to us dragging our feet, yet there comes a moment when you realise that you don't know who the hell you are and how the hell you got here. There comes a moment that you get tired of having the same experiences repeating over and over again in your life and not being able to stop them. When you have this moment, you can really stand within the commitment of supporting yourself through a task like a mind construct. Another consideration is that we don't have to wait for such a moment of realisation to HAPPEN to us - we can CREATE it by gradually doing more and more within the realisation that nothing will change unless we create the change. Resistance is something that we all will continue to face in different ways and, quite simply put, the only way through is through.

So Mind Constructs give you the information of how you got to where you are, which particular thought patterns recur within you, which emotional experiences recur within you, which feeling experiences recur within you. They are like a map, plotting all the landmarks and paths that represent your mind, memories and experiences.

In SRA 3 you start delving into deeper dimensions of the patterns of who you have allowed yourself to be and what you have allowed yourself to participate in. You start investigating the positive and negative polarities that influence your choices and some of the different characters you have created within your personality.

In SRA 4 you get to the investigation of CREATION - you start to investigate how you actually participated in the creation of every single experience you've ever had. This is where you are challenged to really live your corrections. There is a tendency within people to think (often not consciously!) that forgiveness (or self forgiveness) is a free pass to be able to "sin" however much they like. Let's say you forgive yourself for participating within a specific thought, yet your correction is not lived and you then will simply "fall back" into the thought the next time it pops up again, requiring that you then forgive yourself again. This can cycle on indefinitely. Obviously it entirely misses the point of self forgiveness. Self forgiveness is only real when you LIVE the correction, otherwise it's just another excuse to be an asshole. So here the focus is on living your corrections - stopping the thoughts and experiences in real time.

Is that not the gift you would like to give to yourself?

Monday, November 9, 2015

Day 899: Can I Take it Back?

Sometimes you say or do things that you immediately wish you can take back. You immediately regret your words or actions and you regret whatever reactions you may have caused in the people around you. The words you say and the actions you take are as much a part of your creation as any other thing, so make sure that you take responsibility for what you are creating.

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Sunday, November 8, 2015

Day 898: The True Nature of Life

How many of us acknowledge the true nature of life on Earth as it currently stands? We've wrapped ourselves up in positivity, a charade created in an attempt to delude ourselves into happiness. The truth is that none of us are happy - how could we be?

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Saturday, November 7, 2015

Day 897: Transforming Judgement into Understanding

We walk not only to change the world systems, but also the opinions and judgements that people are so stuck within. What key understanding is missing in the mentality of humanity today?

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Friday, November 6, 2015

Day 896: Why is it So Difficult to Ask for Help?

Why do we experience such difficulty in asking for help? Does asking for help diminish you in some way, or make you weak?

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Thursday, November 5, 2015

Day 895: Relationship Success Support: Exploring the Role of the "Happy Housewife"

What are some of the perceptions that women tend to have of their roles in a relationship? How do women try to change their natural expression in order to suit these roles? What are the consequences of trying to fit into a role?


Wednesday, November 4, 2015

Day 894: Investigate All Things

How do we live within a broken system when we know that everything we touch is stained with some kind of abuse of life? When no matter which way we turn, we are causing harm to something? How can you investigate all things and keep what is good?

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Tuesday, November 3, 2015

Day 893: Who You Gonna Trust

Can you trust anything that anyone says or does when you understand that the way that the mind functions includes a level of self dishonesty that is so ingrained that most people do not even realise when they are lying to themselves?

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Monday, November 2, 2015

Day 892: Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself

When you are walking your Creation Process, one important aspect is that you make sure that what you are creating is what is best - and this requires a self honest assessment that you will need to develop within your self application.

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Sunday, November 1, 2015

Day 891: Oops I Let My Emotions Direct Me

How do you know when your emotions are directing your behaviour? What are you creating when you live according to your emotional experiences?

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