Day 93: This Is What Love Looks Like

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This woman's child went missing from home for one and a half hours. This is a photo of their reunion:


When you look at her face, what do you see? Is this what love looks like? 'Cause it looks more like fear.

Do parents really love their children, or are they so consumed by the fear of losing them that love takes the back seat? Real love, unconditional love, exists when one acts in the best interest of that which/who they love, with no self interest, fear of not being liked, desire to be liked, fear of loss etc.

How often does one see love like that in this world, where everyone is either trying to win someone over or keep them from leaving? Love has become a psychological disorder, presenting with obsessive behaviour and thoughts, acting like a different person to get what you want.

Parents are the worst, they mold and shape their child into the picture they want with no regard for whether what they are creating will be a being who honours life, has developed self discipline or self responsibility - as long as the kid turns out to be an object for the parent to "love" no matter what.

Read these blogs for more on PARENTING: Creation's Journey To Life: Day 43: Parenting Patterning Fear And Control
Creation's Journey To Life: Day 19: Rotten Love

I forgive myself for not realizing that a parent's love is replaced by the parent's worst fear: losing their child.

I forgive myself for not realizing that no parent truly loves their child as they do not support the child in a way that is best for the child, as the parent, due to acceptance and allowance and participation without understanding, is a creator of a system that is based on self interest.

I forgive myself for not realizing that the child has very little to no chance of overcoming the programming that the parents put in, as the child receives this programming from the moment it is conceived and then all throughout it's life.

I forgive myself for not realizing that all parents are actually abusive and neglectful in how they raise their children, as they do not teach the child how the body works, how the mind works, self discipline, self responsibility, compassion or how the system works.

I forgive myself for not realizing that a parent simply teaches their child how to survive in the system.

I forgive myself for not realizing that all parents are child abusers as they knowingly bring their child into a world in which a dignified life is not guaranteed and all they can teach the child is how to survive in it as well as they were taught.

I forgive myself for not realizing that a person who has not had any form of training before they have a child should have the child removed for it's own safety and development.

I forgive myself for not realizing that a parent does not even meet their most basic obligation: care for the child in a manner that is best for the child.

I forgive myself for not realizing that parents care for their children according to their opinions and the belief that they own the child have the right to raise the child according to their self-righteous opinions, which is actually child abuse, as the parent does not act according to common sense or practicality or that which has been tested extensively - they act only to validate themselves within their opinions.

I commit myself to showing people how the fear of losing a child has strangled the possibility of love.

I commit myself to show people that love means to do what is best for the child at all times.

I commit myself to re educate people how to support the child through it's development based on what is best for the child - not on opinion.

I commit myself to re-educating people how ourselves and this world actually work.

I commit myself to showing parents that we must all act to create a better world which holds more than just the hope of survival.

I commit myself to re educating parents how to educate their child how to live within the world to make a difference and improve the lives of all.

I commit myself to ensuring that any person who wants a child is trained beforehand so that the best possible chance is given to the child.

I commit myself to ensuring every child has someone who meets the basic obligation to ensure that the child's best interests are always considered and applied accordingly.

I commit myself to ensuring that opinions are never accepted or allowed to enter the dynamic between parent and child.

Comments

  1. And now the parents will adapt the Character to look out for future problems that may arise and to tighten the grip on the child even more - by controlling the character of the child to prevent the parent from having to face their fears.

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