Day 1295: The Masks we Live

We often start doing things for other people, things like cleaning house, dressing differently, keeping up a particular appearance, etc. We make these changes usually because we want other people (or one specific person) to see us in a good light, or to try give them less things to potentially judge us for. But making changes for other people often leads to things like resentment and not sticking with the changes - so how do we make the changes for ourselves instead?