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Wednesday, November 30, 2016

Day 1229: I Want to be You

Why do we sometimes get fixated on the lives of other people and the things that we don't have? Cerise and Joe #Getreal with this pattern of losing ourselves in the lives of others.

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Saturday, November 26, 2016

Day 1228: Desteni of Living - Self Honesty

In this video I share how I have been practicing living the desteni principle of self honesty. It is arguably one of the more challenging principles, as very few people truly want to see the worst of themselves. I share how I support myself in moments of wanting to judge what I find within me. #principledliving #getrealwithus

http://forum.desteni.org/viewtopic.php?f=50&t=6833

2. Living by the principle of Self-Honesty – Reflecting on myself and seeing every part of me (the good, bad and ugly) without bias or judgment so that I can take responsibility to change that which I no longer accept and allow.

Friday, November 25, 2016

Day 1227: Blinded by Potential

Why do we so easily get ourselves dazed and confused when only looking at the "bright side" of things? Cerise Poolman and Joe Kou #Getreal with getting blinded by the light of potential and "hope".

For Cerise and Joe's Segment on "Self Change and World Change" check it out here:
Cerise and Joe - Answering the Question of Self Change Part 1:
http://desteniradio.blogspot.co.za/…/bonus-episode-introduc…


Cerise and Joe - Answering the Question of Self Change Part 2:
http://desteniradio.blogspot.co.za/…/cerise-and-joe-2-answe…

For more support on how to honor your potential in your relationships, we highly recommend the "Relationship Success Support" series on EQAFE - https://eqafe.com/series/27-relationship-success-support

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Wednesday, November 23, 2016

Day 1226: Desteni of Living - Living what is Best for All

In this video I share how I have been practicing living the desteni principle of what is best for all. I share some of the challenges in this principle and how I support myself to overcome my limitations.

http://forum.desteni.org/viewtopic.php?f=50&t=6833
  1. Living by the principle of what is best for all – guiding myself in thought, word and deed to always, in all ways, direct all things to the best possible outcome for all.
    1. Taking into consideration the effects of my thoughts, words and deeds on the world around me (people, plants, animals, environment) and ensuring that the thoughts, words and deeds I am living honour the best potential of myself and all of life on Earth, to the best of my ability.
    2. Standing unconditionally in the shoes of all people and all things, and being able to at the end of the day say that I have fully considered all within the context of creating the best possible outcome for everyone and everything – that I have honored and considered them in the way that I would like to be honored and considered.

Tuesday, November 22, 2016

Day 1225: Voting with Your Money

Is voting with your money and practicing ethical spending a viable solution for the problems we face in our world? Cerise Poolman and Joe Kou share their perspectives on how this approach can be practically applied and to what extent it has a positive impact in our world.

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Monday, November 21, 2016

Day 1224: Desteni of Living: Investigate all things and keep what is Good

In this video I share how I have been practicing living principle number 4 from the Desteni of Living, what challenges I have faced and what I do to support myself in those moments.

You can see the full Desteni of Living Principles here: http://forum.desteni.org/viewtopic.php?f=50&t=6833

4. Investigate all things and keep what’s good – I unconditionally investigate, consider and introspect all aspects, expressions, perspectives and avenues of life and assess what can practically be applied within the principle of what is best for all.

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Sunday, November 20, 2016

Day 1223: Cerise and Joe Make Love

Cerise and Joe show how they make love.... real.

What does it mean to Make Love Real according to the Desteni Principle? How is making love real different from any other intimate personal relationship?

This is the Desteni Principle: 9. Making Love real – Nurturing and honouring the utmost potential in every individual (including myself) wherein love is not a feeling or emotion, but an action that is lived by doing whatever is necessary to support without compromising myself or the other, without fear of “losing” the relationship and without accepting or allowing less than my or another’s utmost potential. - See it here: http://forum.desteni.org/viewtopic.php?f=50&t=6833

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Saturday, November 19, 2016

Day 1222: Desteni Radio - Forum Response "Distractions and Focus"

In this episode, Cerise and Joe share personal examples and perspectives in relation to a topic on the Desteni forum regarding how to develop focus and free oneself from distractions.

You can see the topic here: forum.desteni.org/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=7902

Thursday, November 17, 2016

Day 1221: I Never Asked to be Born

Why is the statement "I never asked to be born" such an ultimate cop-out for self-responsibility in all aspects of your life? What are the likely consequences for those who live with that statement as if it was real? Cerise and Joe get real with this issue and the various dimensions within it.

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Wednesday, November 16, 2016

Day 1220: Mind Your Privates (And Your Genitals Too)

Why is it that when it comes to money, we feel about as comfortable speaking about it openly as we do with speaking about our genitalia? Cerise and Joe dig in for a close look at the dirty, shameful, "private" nature of money.

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Tuesday, November 15, 2016

Day 1219: What does Gossip say about You?

OMG- Have you heard what people are saying about you?

Gossip is something each of us have either participated in or been at the receiving end of. What are the consequences of gossip and how can we stop it before it comes back around to bite us?

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Monday, November 14, 2016

Day 1218: Facing Your Dark Mind

What is the Dark Mind and how do we start being able to work with it and see it for what it is without losing ourselves in judgment or shame when seeing the worst sides of ourselves?

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Sunday, November 13, 2016

Day 1217: Dark Minds Crave Authority

Cerise and Joe discuss the deep, dark reasons behind why we don't want to take responsibility for our lives and why we secretly love it when people tell us what to do even if we say we don't.

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Friday, November 11, 2016

Day 1215: Cerise & Joe on Desteni Radio Parts 1 & 2

A sneak peak at a brand new segment on Desteni Radio for you all today. Introducing "Cerise and Joe" where we take on a single topic and talk about all of the various dimensions we see in it within our personal perspectives as Destonians. Tune in and have a listen to our first episode!

Cerise and Joe continuing the series of answering the question of how self change leads to world change. Why does self change have to happen in order for the world to change? We dive in to the deeper dimensions of this issue on the Cerise and Joe program today.

Wednesday, November 9, 2016

Tuesday, November 8, 2016

Day 1213: I Know I'm Right Because I'm Right

Have you ever discounted what other people say, without taking a moment to actually consider them? Or have you felt personally attacked when people don't immediately agree with or understand what you are trying to convey?

Monday, November 7, 2016

Day 1212: As Within so Without

Have you ever noticed how you will not question the things you see in the world and people around you if you are allowing those same things within the secret corners of yourself?

Sunday, November 6, 2016

Day 1211: Things we used to Suck at

In response to a challenge from Yogan Wayra Zadrozny Barrientos , Joe Kou and I each share a story of something we used to suck at and how we developed ourselves within it. We challenge Leslie-John Poolman to share a story of something he used to suck at!

Saturday, November 5, 2016

Day 1210: Honouring Your Potential

What does it mean to honour your potential? In this video, Joe Kou and I share our perspectives and experiences with honouring our potential. #truestory

Wednesday, November 2, 2016

Day 1207: Who am I in my Worst Case Scenario

This is a response to Yogan Wayra Zadrozny Barrientos - we challenge Gian Robberts to share who he is in his worst case scenario!